My own "Said No!" story....

[sirdaniel1975]

You had to rent a Tux and play or because you played did your father in law pay for the rental? You have worn your kilt scene then, I hope. Did he charge the guest for diner?

MrBill

He payed for the rental and I think my father payed for the rehearsal dinner!

[Carolina Kiltman]

I will say that you did the right thing, also. There are times when one must put one's ego, or pride, into a locked drawer to accommodate the greater good. I hope the pair have managed to deal with the control freak(s) in a healthy manner and that the marriage is sound. I salute you for your graciousness.