Quote Originally Posted by RockyR View Post
Exactly... I only used shoes or purses as an example. Find what she collects a lot of or 'spends on' often and point it out. It helps to level the field a bit.

****DO NOT point anything out if she collects something VERY inexpensive (i.e. little trinkets') and you collect EXPENSIVE things (electronics, computer programs, multiple high end kilts, etc)... this could actually give her ammo to HURT your case.
yeah, like I said, shot glasses and key chains. She complains that she never really found any hobbies. She also like coin collecting, but its so passive that she rather just waits to see if I get anything nice, then if it become redundant, she takes it. Even that, she lacks the enthusiasm to care if she gets any of those or not. (Except when she refused to let me send in my proof set of pres dollars for grading, and made me buy another one I wanted from that set off of ebay.) It's annoying, it is. I have tried for over 5 years to help her find hobby, to no avail.