I would not call it a disaster, I would say you learned others opinion about your presentation. It's a learning experience, and you grow. Overall, I would say you had a good look, and with a couple minor changes you will get what you are after. If you took a piece of that tartan and wore it as a scarf, used the bear claw as a kilt pin, matched with the jacket, you can probably get the results you desire. It's just my opinion, for all it's worth.