That's awful. I am very sorry to hear this.
There is no initial character test required for joining xmarksthescot but if a member then proves himself unworthy that may be a matter for the mods, though I would think the only sanction they could apply would be a ban, which is no help to you in receiving payment for your sporrans.
All I've lost is some leather and time and I'm a little less trusting of my fellow man

Shriner has lost his honor and integrity