Step1. "Honey, would you like to go shopping?" "Oh, I don't know. Where would YOU like to go?"

Step2. Pay for whatever honey has selected.

Step3. "Where would you like to go for dinner?"

Step4. Go for dinner and when people compliment you on your kilt you can say "See? There's nothing bad about wearing a kilt."

Step5. If this works, I accept cash, check, money orders, PayPal,..........

Good Luck.