This is a question that I struggle with and still don't really know my own mind about it. I am an Army brat and my father was a military man from an early age, seeing combat in China ("unofficially" in the 1930's long before Pearl Harbor), then served in the U.S. Army for WWII and Korea. I was born on an Army base as was one of my sisters, slept with a copy of the Officer's Guide (1953 edition, I believe) on my beside table and had been taught the manual of arms by my father before he ever kicked a soccer ball around with me. However, I did not serve in our Armed Services.

I would love to honor my father's service and dedication in some way, but hesitate to wear the U.S. Army tartan. I was raised to have an understanding of what my Dad's old uniforms, ribbons and insignia represented and knew that these were for me to treasure as heirlooms, but never wear. The fact that the U.S. Army Tartan is not official does set it apart... but still I hesitate. I suppose ultimately one has to follow the dictates of their conscience and heart on such a matter and the fact that you are asking the question means that you are coming at it with an awareness of the sensitivities that surround the symbolism of these tartans.

I think Ron is right, it's not like you have no connection to the tartan, and your father's service truly deserves recognition. I'd like to know your decision... I'm still working on mine.