I have hosted a 12th Night party every year since 1978 (except one), so January 2010 is the 33rd. This year marks the 25th year that my wonderful wife has been my co-host. Held on the Saturday nearest Jan. 6, It's a grand and crowded evening of music, song, and dance, sometimes including mummers, and sometimes drums. People from all our worlds converge and enjoy each other's company. There are many folks who only see each other once a year at our party. My grown kids (whose friends now eagerly participate) tell me that when we're gone, the party will continue.
All the best to all you XMarkers for the holidays, and the New Year!
Cheers,
John