Quote Originally Posted by Zardoz View Post
I have never felt the need to ask the bride, (who has enough to worry about) or her parents, (who are technically the 'hosts') anyone else's permission to dress in my usual manner.
Small aside... the Bride's parents are the hosts if they are paying for the wedding. If the bride and groom are paying for it themselves (which is pretty often these days), the parents aren't really the 'hosts'.