Joe, I had the same concerns when I started my first kilt last month. I'm using Barb's book step by step. (I'm ready to press, tomorrow...) My sewing skills were limited to buttons and fixing a ripped hem or seam. I just Googled what I wanted to know, including some specific stitches and some terms. It takes time, take breaks and read and consult this website as you go. I have found plenty of DIY threads that answer most all of my questions. Many with pictures. Plus feel free to ask any question.

Oh, one last tip. If you already own a completed kilt, refer to it. I found my USA Kilt was a wonderful model. When I wasn't sure how the completed step fit into the construction, I would examine my own kilt(s). The answers were right in front of me.

Welcome to the addiction