The waist/hips/taper thing was another reason I'd start with one for dh, but I'm really wondering where I should make the hips measurement, because for both me and my dh, we have the thighs-larger-than-hips issue. I wish I could draw a diagram here. I'll work on it. Thanks!

edit: ah, sydnie7, you posted while I was typing. I'll go search for that post. No cure = oh well! I just don't want to put lots of time into something and then learn that if I had only been brave enough to ask, I coulda done it much better!