Start with a kilt and dress accordingly with the rest as to where you are going...and what you are doing.

eg boots and sweater to go hiking in summer..... and not a formal coatee.

To a formal dinner and dance an Argyll jacket or coatee, hose and brogues... and not boots and sweater.

to a wedding a Crail or Argyll.

to a rugby/football match, sports shirt to support your team .

Just don't go over the top and look like the Hollywood idea of a Scottish warrior...or of a costume fancy dress party. Remember,
less is more! otherwise the term "Brigadoonery" might be said of you.

Best of all.... feel comfortable in your skin and in your highland dress.

Get the idea? There are many alternatives but go with the occasion.

Simple!