Thank you all for this discussion. I bought a couple good handkerchiefs a while back but have been fumbling over how to fold them. The link is just what I need.

To elaborate a bit, I found some with initials while on mission trip to Panama. They had the full alphabet choices in fonts for men and women. I also learned that while men use the initial of their family name, ladies often use the initial of their given name. I would suggest if others have a hard time finding their initial in the antique store linens, they try a shop in an Hispanic district.