Welcome to the forum and to San Diego. I'm sure you will come to love this part of the world.
As suggested by my lovely lady Sydnie7 you should plan on attending the nearby Vista games which are usually the last weekend in June. We will be there and we usually meet on Saturday night at a nearby pub with other XMarkers.
Enjoy your kilting. This is the right place to come for advice because goodness knows there are some on here with advice to spare. LOL