Brian

I think you are turning a major corner in your life, seeing now all those friends and expanded family around you and their importance in your life. You must now see all those good things you saw in your "Dad" and miss so terribly now yourself, and realize it is your legacy, from him, to carry on and spread the same to your community of friends and family. How better to memorialize him in a most positive, communal and forward thinking manner.

Good will and Gods speed.

j