We Rock!

[The F-H.C.A.G.]

But it's not just about following the rules. After all, we don't actually have a choice there do we?

It's the fact that we are all so interesting, smart, and varied. I suppose having the rules allows us to remain civil to each other, and I am grateful that gives us the opportunity to get to know each other.

I don't spend a lot of time on other online forums, so I don't have a basis for comparison, but I am continually impressed by the quality of folks we have met through this forum, and I like to think that we are all kind to each other through choice, not just because we are forced to be. Whew! That was a long sentence!

Be well,

Star

[Kilted in Maine]

When we follow the rules, we get along really well.

RULES?????

I thought there were no rules????

[Bigkahuna]

RULES?????

I thought there were no rules????

Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the Masses,not some farcical aquatic ceremony.................Wait!!! Let me start again!!!

[SteveB]

The Clan of X-Marks.

I feel that I personally know many of the active members as individuals, far more than just a "screen name". I know about the battle of the bulge that some of have succeeded with, and others have thrown in the towel, and gone for bigger kilts. I enjoy the criticism on the board for how an outfit goes together or what needs to happen to make it work. I have enjoyed the opportunity to look at our love of the kilt from many of our members different perspectives. We are a group of people that can laugh at ourselves, and laugh with each other. This has been proven by the number of keyboards that I have replaced after soaking them in tea... I enjoy the fellowship of the many here.

XMTS ROCKS

[The F-H.C.A.G.]

Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the Masses,not some farcical aquatic ceremony.................Wait!!! Let me start again!!!

"Old woman!"...

"I'm only 37!"...



Be well,

[sathor]

I actually enjoy watching the aftermath of the tartan run mix-up. It shows a lot of interesting things in the kilted nature.

My nature (or perhaps upbringing) would make me believe I would have done the same as 'the wizard' but I don't know if I would accept people not taking the lower amount under the circumstance. If I were a party in the whole thing, I think I'd rather get a gift certificate for the difference, especially once the store opens up the accessory stuff, of course the discount, especially for post holiday bills, but I see both sides in a way. I would be happy with the hemming I guess, (I'd just have to send it off to a kilt maker anyway) but I also have the inner need to do the right thing (most of the time) and I don't think I would let the people get off without the discount. I'd rather give them a GC than to give them nothing extra. Of course, that also leaves the ball completly in the other person's court. They could use the GC (and perhaps get a nice sporran for a bit less) or 'rip it up' and let it expire.

I do also hate to say, in the same threads, I have seen some of the darker parts of Xmarks. There was a comment made in reply to my asking about the situation where it felt like they believed I didn't have a say because I didn't have an order in, and had no business commenting. I understand the situation was stressful, so I didn't let it bother me, I've been there myself. I once spent 4 hours digitally restoring images from negatives that got 'eaten' by a photo developing machine of a customers vacation as Walgreens. The Manager was miffed, but knew that if I did it 'in house' it would give the customer a better impression than a new roll of film, and if they pressed, they would have spent a lot more to send it somewhere else and have it done instead of leaving me alone to do it myself.

[Panache]

...I do also hate to say, in the same threads, I have seen some of the darker parts of Xmarks. There was a comment made in reply to my asking about the situation where it felt like they believed I didn't have a say because I didn't have an order in, and had no business commenting.

sathor,

The thread was specifically for people that had been paid and ordered XMTS tartan.

You hadn't

Therefore it was restated that the thread was for...

...people that had been paid and ordered XMTS tartan.

Hardly "the darker parts of XMTS"

One of our jobs the moderators do here is help direct threads to keep them on track.

Steve needed input on that thread from a particular group.

I'm not exactly sure what this had to do with the positive thread my lovely F-H.C.A.G. started...

... so perhaps we can get back to the subject at hand (there I go being a Moderator again )




This is an amazing group of people and I am very proud to be part of this place

We do Rock!

Cheers

Jamie

[sathor]

I understand fully, it was just the way the reply came off in my opinion. Of course, I'm not a moderator, nor do I ever expect to be one, so there probably are some real dark parts that I have never, and will never see. We both have different perspectives, and different backgrounds. Which is probably a good thing, otherwise we'd all be a bunch of drones and they would be selling kilts at Walmart instead of Hot Topic.

sathor,

The thread was specifically for people that had been paid and ordered XMTS tartan.

You hadn't

Therefore it was restated that the thread was for...

...people that had been paid and ordered XMTS tartan.

Hardly "the darker parts of XMTS"

One of our jobs the moderators do here is help direct threads to keep them on track.

Steve needed input on that thread from a particular group.

I'm not exactly sure what this had to do with the positive thread my lovely F-H.C.A.G. started...

... so perhaps we can get back to the subject at hand (there I go being a Moderator again )




This is an amazing group of people and I am very proud to be part of this place

We do Rock!

Cheers

Jamie

[The F-H.C.A.G.]

I don't want to see this thread die because no one has anything positive left to say, so I'll redirect a bit before I must run off to work.

Chime in folks, if you would like to.

How has X-Marks made you a better person?

Personally, I have learned that if you want to get to know people, you have to be patient enough and tactful enough to allow them to show you who they are. If you spend too much time concentrating on yourself and judging them by your own experiences, you never will get the benefit of their experiences.

Must go to work....

Be well,

Star

[Colin]

Personally, I have learned that if you want to get to know people, you have to be patient enough and tactful enough to allow them to show you who they are. If you spend too much time concentrating on yourself and judging them by your own experiences, you never will get the benefit of their experiences.

Amen sister!!!

You Rock, Star!!

Xmarks has made me a better person in that I have had to exercise more patience towards other attitudes, approaches, and backgrounds. Being a moderator for a long time forced me to be fair to all and to look at the site in the context of something bigger than just my own feelings and personal opinions. So many people are so concerned about their own opinion or outside interests that they don't see the beauty of how a little give and take makes this such an interesting place. It's a site with members stretching the globe who have all been brought together over a shared interest (really it's just a bunch of dudes talking about clothing). If that means I have to leave my religious and political thoughts at the door, I am more than happy to do so for the experience and opportunity to learn from the different life experiences and cultures that are represented on this forum.