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    I meant to not accept money playing for
    their funerals, as an expression of appreciation.
    (Not as offering free entertainment for life.)
    Regardless of their motives, I am grateful
    for their actions.

    Everyone follows their own conscience. That
    is where mine leads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robinhood View Post
    I meant to not accept money playing for
    their funerals, as an expression of appreciation.
    (Not as offering free entertainment for life.)
    Regardless of their motives, I am grateful
    for their actions.

    Everyone follows their own conscience. That
    is where mine leads.
    What do you do for a living? Do you offer that service for free?
    Virtus Ad Aethera Tendit

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    I have served not on the colour guard, but on the 21 gun salute at a memorial in Iraq, wish we would have had a piper there...

    A lot depends on the people doing the funeral, the guard unit i am with will do it differently than my last unit (active) that will also do it differently than, say, the Old Guard.

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    I work on computers for a living. I do offer that service for free,
    to those I wish. Others owe me a favor or cash, depending on
    their circumstance and my desire. (Some cannot offer enough
    cash. Some who can, I refuse to accept. Some who can, I will
    not even deal with.)

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    Scott, that's great news! Thanks for sharing it with us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robinhood View Post
    I work on computers for a living. I do offer that service for free,
    to those I wish. Others owe me a favor or cash, depending on
    their circumstance and my desire. (Some cannot offer enough
    cash. Some who can, I refuse to accept. Some who can, I will
    not even deal with.)
    I definitely respect position and train of thought regarding not wanting to charge a military funeral, but bills do have to be paid. I work with computers too but i wouldn't go out and buy someone a new computer out of my own pocket. The bagpipes, training, kilt, accessories all cost money and if you have a trade that will help pay for those I think that's awesome. Military personell fought for our rights, which does include capitalism. But again, I do respect your views and you have some great beliefs. We are all entitled to live life the way we desire.

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    although I dont feel I need to defend my position let me tell you my situation.

    last march (06) we decided that for me to go to school we'd need some support as far as babysitting ect. well I made some calls set up some jobs , housing ect. and we moved.

    wel the jobs fell through, my family member who was going to rent us her house decided that she didnt want to move out yet.
    so there we were living at my parents house( oh and we found out Gavin was on his way) trying to find jobs in a hurry and try to get our own place.
    we've been scraping by for the last year I've been working the fire Dept. on a reserve basis,(read part time) working a EMT/security job 140 miles RT, and basicly trying to make $$ any way I can to get us ahead.

    till Vinnie said that I should do Funeral gigs I didnt even think about that as an income source because I pretty much turned down the funeral director the day she talked to us...I didnt think I was good enough.

    I would LOVE to be able to not charge for Military services, but right now it isnt feesable(sp?) because I need to find a baby sitter, DRIVE there and back, and work my schedule to make it happen( I work a 12 hour shift tonight 5p-5a and the funeral is in the afternoon (2p) so when I get home at 06:30 I will get about 2 hours sleep wake up with the kids get them fed and clothed and ready for the baby sitter who will watch them from 12:30 to 6:00 and then get to the cemetary an hour early to make sure all the duck are lined up as to where and when I wil play and so on ...

    please believe me when I say that I have great respect for our armed services, I have 3 close friends who are in the present conflict that I will not see for the next 2 years 2 are in the sandbox, and one is in the hills ( Iraq, and afganistan respectivly ) there will come a day ( and hopefully VERY soon ) that it wont be an issue and I will say NO CHARGE and if they were to give me a tip anyways I would send it to a charity to help someone else out

    but right now I cant.....

    KFP
    Irish diplomacy: is telling a man to go to he)) in such a way that he looks forward to the trip!

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    I hope you don't mind me weighing in on the topic of getting paid for providing music. I've been a pastoral musician for more years than many of our members have been alive. There has always been a resistance to paying for music in a setting such as this, but it's a professional service just like the Mortician, the Minister or the driver of the hearse. A professional service provider deserves to be compensated for his or her contribution. If the musician (or minister or mortician) chooses to return payment or make some other contribution to the cause that's their business. If a musician works for free that's exactly the value the community will place on them.

    Off my soap-box now.

    "back on target", my condolances once again KFP. I'm sure you did your Mother proud. I have done music at the funerals of family members. Although I was pleased and proud to do it it always cost me the opportunity to fully grieve with the rest of the family. I hope that wasn't the case for you. And if this experience leads you to a way to suppliment your income then maybe that's some kind of karma showing that you have something to contribute to the deceased and the grieving.

    Jamie
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    As a veteran, I can say that the workman is worthy of his hire, and I'd certainly hope that one who made the effort to be present for my funeral would get paid his standard funeral rate.

    I served for my own reasons, many and varried. I never expected anything from anyone because I made the choice to serve.

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    KFP,
    Have you also looked into advertising for your services? Plenty of Pipers out there for hire.
    www.bagpiper.com

    The piper for my wedding is a friend, but he's also a professional. Originally from Ireland and now in Dallas. He charged $300 for the first hour, $150 each additional 1/2 hour, plus $50 travel fee to gigs more than 30 miles from his home. He's also the pipe major for the North Texas Caledonian Pipe & Drum Band, and gives lessons from his house. Had a sound proof booth put into his house to keep the neighbors at bay. Awesome looking.

    I know people charge differently but that sounded more than reasonable to me for good sounding pipes and my wife agreed. Here's Don's page www.scottishpiper.com The web address is even in big bold lettering across the back window of his Land Rover. Just some ideas.

    Also he had some glossy cards printed up. Think 3"x8" or so advertising cards. Pretty picture on the front, details on the back. They are on display at local funeral homes all across Dallas.

    He plays Burn's nights all over and anytime people call. To go as a piper full time, he definitely pays the bills. He loves talking to other pipers as well. He might have some tips for you.

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