I recently found myself in situations that took an emotional toll on my heart. Such as realizing i cant move on from a girl who broke up with me last august and also that anytime i try to stand up for what i believe in or for my friends, everyone makes it clear to me that i need to shut up because nobody cares (what they really say is a lot meaner, since they're all 14-15 years old). Not only did it hurt, but also disintegrated my confidence. Because of this, i now find myself uncomfortable in one of my favorite articles of clothing, the kilt. Can someone please tell me how i can get enough confidence back to at least wear the kilt without feeling.........vulnerable?