It is not his fault my wife is sick... Not his fault everything is crazy. Not his fault that if I get a job I might lose my home and my wife might lose her healthcare and disability coverage. Not his fault that my life is very confusing right now and I don't know what to do.

No, the only thing he did wrong was pop off and run his mouth. Because he's an idiot. He went on with his life blissfully unaware that for a few seconds, he was entirely to close to mortal danger.

I would have had no excuse, and it certainly wouldn't be praiseworthy.