I, personally wouldn't ever presume to tell my wife what she can or cannot do, unless it's physically dangerous or extremely financially risky on a scale that would mess us up for years. Aside from that, what she does and what she wears is her business.

If My wife said that to me, she'd get a load of hot language right smack back in her face, and she's bloody well deserve it. She does not OWN me, she does not DEFINE me, just like I don't own or define her. If I let her get away with that I fully expect to come down a HUGE notch in her estimation and respect because I can't stand up for myself.