Don't worry, I shared the link to show an example of that "hollywood-ish" Scottish wedding we were talking about.. That's exactly what we wish to avoid ;)

In fact, as we are french, we can't get married in Scotland, so all the papers will be done in our hometown.

About our wedding in the castle, we were thinking about two options: book a master of ceremony (but with no papers to fill, just to pronounce our vows and to put the rings on!) or ask a friend to do it, which could be great as we could really do it the way we like!

One thing we would like to do is "hand fasting". I would really like to dance as well, and one Scottish friend told me we can book a professional to guide us for the dancing!

And this is the kind of wedding we like: http://whimsicalwonderlandweddings.c...e-wedding.html

Another question: can I wear my sash for the wedding? Do I put it on before, during or after the wedding? I just wish to have the tartan of my fiancé that day on my outfit too.