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[imbrius]

Hi Father Bill and Tarheel.
Thank you for the replies, he was very appreciative when I explained things to him,and yes I did drop a hint to Xmarks the Scot so we will see ,even his wife was enthusiastic about him wearing the kilt more. This was at Masonic do and they said they have a few black tie functions to go.
Dirk95

Probably about 90% of the black tie events I attend are Masonic. Really outside academia and military, it's the only wide swath of U.S. Society that regularly uses a formality level above "professional".