Well here's where I land on this... as if it really matters...

A guy would definitely get popped... That's just completely unwarranted and very unwanted, at least by me. It's completely unacceptable and it does deserve retaliation.

A gal? Well, I tend not to hang out in places that this would be encouraged or acceptable behavior because I'm married and I respect that bond and commitment. Were to happen any way I don't know that I would be angry, but I would definitely be speechless and would feel a good deal violated as I'm a fairly private person... Yes I am an extrovert and "rebellious" according to some standards, but I still maintain a distinct separation between my outer facade and my private life. Of course, knowing me, what I'd probably end up doing to teach the woman would be to respond in kind... I'd take my slap and, were the wife around, call my buddy Frank and let him know I'm staying over for a while... I'm a fairly quid pro quo kind of guy... and a slap or punch just wouldn't teach a woman what she really needed to know in that situation, and I've only ever hit one woman as that was just the way I was raised (the one situation was actually self defense) And yes, I'd probably return the favor to an elderly nun too... Hey, she started it, and I'm sure she could use a pat on the butt!