what is the name for this?

[Phil]

I draw the line at the lace cuffs myself. A personal thing I know but I think they are just a bit OTT (and they are liable to go into your soup!). The jabot is a bit special though and great if you want to stand out from the crowd.

[gilmore]

I draw the line at the lace cuffs myself. A personal thing I know but I think they are just a bit OTT (and they are liable to go into your soup!). ....

True, but they work quite well for straining the lumps out of one's soup.