
Originally Posted by
PiobBear
What does the invitation say? ....It's their wedding; dress according to your host's expectations; when in doubt, ask. That's why you're called a "guest".
This is the best overall advice. We can debate the rules all day. We have to remember, however, that these rules were developed by aristocrats who had the money for all these different levels of dress. A lot of today's society doesn't even know these rules, let alone follow them.
It's good to know the rules, but the most important rule is to follow the lead of the hosts. To dress at a certain level because it's the "proper" way to dress, even though the hosts have set a different level of dress, is insulting the hosts, as you are putting yourself above them because you "know better".
We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. - Japanese Proverb
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