Right, I didn't realize the can o worms I opened with a simple question. Here's what I have decided to do:

Regardless of right or wrong I am going to use the PC until such time as I either need the 3 or 5 button Argyle; I think it looks sharp and as long as I don't go over the top (fly, broach, diceed hose) I should not out shine the bride (fat chance for a 240 lbs, 50 year old bald guy in a kilt to out shine a nubile young thang). If at such time I need a less/more formal outfit we will cross that bridge when we get there.

SPC 50 works for me, as will a nice plain balmoral. For travel to and from events, and if the flaming orb gets too intense.

Under no circumstances will I use a parasol, cloth or paper. I have enough problems explaining the testicular heritage of the kilt, much less that of the High Victorian Parasol; too many images of the Elite Parasol Drill and Parade Team flood in; Parasols, pith helmets, tan shirts, Royal Stewart kilts, French mil boots with white/cream spats......and waxed mustaches.

Now there's an image....

Golden Pather-Kilt Pin Owners Unite!