Martin, I think the problem it is a cultural one. In the USA children are rigorously shielded from all things sexual, in Europe we are much more relaxed about things like that. The moderators have the very difficult task of making sure that nobody on this multi-national forum, feels upset, embarrassed or insulted no matter what their cultural background.

On this forum they give us the right not to be embarrassed or insulted, not the right to say what we like regardless of other peoples feelings, that is what makes it such a great forum.

Peter