Asking for advice,listening,considering it and then choosing to ignore it is everyone's right. What is rather tiresome,sometimes here, is the way the advice is asked for, given, and if it is not what the enquirer is wanting to hear there is this tirade that flies about,containing the words, traditionalists, kilt police, rights,I will wear what I want ,where and when I choose, non conforming,this is the USA we can do what we like, and on it goes.Ho hum.