Most times I don't say anything. I just ask where and when they want me to play,or what they want played.
I do have a weird little story though.
About 3 years ago i played for a gentleman Glasgow.
At his funeral was over his son came up to pay me and said he loved the way i played
flowers of the Forrest and said jokingly well my wife has your number and i want that played at my funeral.
4 days later the man was jogging in the cemetery and had a heart attack at his fathers grave .
Sure enough i was back playing flowers of the forrest a couple days later than his fathers. Anyone else have weird happenings go on? I don't wanna hijack the thread but some other pipers must have some stories like this.