Sorry to hear of your difficulties. I'm sure you'll quickly learn the difference between a real need and a want. (People sometimes have difficulty with that concept.)

Be thankful he's still employed. Three years after being 'let go', and I'm still looking for work. (Long story. Anyone can PM me if you want details). I've been extremely frugal and am still afloat (but just barely now).

Hang in there. Things will eventually get better.