what formal events do you attend, and...

[Standard]

I go to a couple of white tie events every year. This is a ticket for the next one in two weeks time.




Chas

Very interesting Chas. My wife and I get dressed to go out on occation, but not as often as you do it seems. I've a couple of questions about the invitation that you posted as I'm not familiar with some of the terms used. Bottom left corner "Table Banners"? As to the times on 7 for 7.30 and carriages at 10:30? Thanks for the information.

[jhockin]

one caution I'd like to add, for Alan, or anyone else thinking of getting rid of something you already have:
from my own past experience ( i once moved 8 times in 5 years, and because of this, got rid of a LOT of 'stuff', that i had been 'saving in case i need it'), it sems to be a corollary, of Murphys Law, that once you get rid of something, it won't be long before you are slapping your forehead, because NOW really need it

[Chas]

Very interesting Chas. My wife and I get dressed to go out on occation, but not as often as you do it seems. I've a couple of questions about the invitation that you posted as I'm not familiar with some of the terms used. Bottom left corner "Table Banners"? As to the times on 7 for 7.30 and carriages at 10:30? Thanks for the information.

Hi Standard,

A table banner displays ones coat of arms and sits on the table in front of you. The coat of arms represents the person so if you know the arms, you know who the person is. This is mine. You will notice that it is the same as my avatar.



7 for 7:30 - Dining starts at 7:30. From 7:00 on-wards, pre-dinner drinks will be served. The host is telling the guest that he is expected to arrive between those times; earlier and the host and his servants will not be ready to receive the guest; later and the guest will embarrass themselves with their lateness.

Carriages at 10:30 is old fashioned, but again is politeness for the guest. The dinner will be fully finished by 10:30. If the guest knows the finishing time, he knows what time to tell his driver to arrive.

This invitation is more or less standard. Other information is sometimes included - 'Dancing', 'Live Music', 'Charity Auction', 'name of royalty if attending', 'other activity'. It is all designed to give the maximum information to the guest.

I hope this helps

Regards

Chas

[Smayniac]

I attend, usually in a working capacity, several events each year that would most probably be considered in the "Black Tie Optional" category. I have worn a kilt to some of them with a conventional necktie. I do own a wing collar shirt and black bow tie, made for me for my wedding so many years ago, but haven't even tried them on lately.

I haven't chosen to own a conventional dress kit as most customers are happy with a coat and tie from technical types. I have selected a few events to wear the kilt to and have had overwhelmingly positive comments.

Bob

[Standard]

Hi Standard,

A table banner displays ones coat of arms and sits on the table in front of you. The coat of arms represents the person so if you know the arms, you know who the person is. This is mine. You will notice that it is the same as my avatar.



7 for 7:30 - Dining starts at 7:30. From 7:00 on-wards, pre-dinner drinks will be served. The host is telling the guest that he is expected to arrive between those times; earlier and the host and his servants will not be ready to receive the guest; later and the guest will embarrass themselves with their lateness.

Carriages at 10:30 is old fashioned, but again is politeness for the guest. The dinner will be fully finished by 10:30. If the guest knows the finishing time, he knows what time to tell his driver to arrive.

This invitation is more or less standard. Other information is sometimes included - 'Dancing', 'Live Music', 'Charity Auction', 'name of royalty if attending', 'other activity'. It is all designed to give the maximum information to the guest.

I hope this helps

Regards

Chas

Thanks Chas, that is what I thought the times meant, however I was totally unfamiliar with the table banner. Hope you have an enjoyable evening at your event.