Hi Joshua.

Been where you are, fun and frustratiing isnt it.

You cite leiden, in your line, pilgrim connection, my I ask to whom you are related. On my paternal side I am 12th generation direct from Henry Samson, one of only two teenagers on the Mayflower. Irish married in.
Now Mum's side, greatgrandfather direct from Scotland-Ulster to NS, finally MA, looking for work as a carpenter.

Though blood may be thicker than water, the feeling and connection you have at heart may be thicker even than blood.