I am not a fan of pumps, thought the ones with the tongue are slightly more palatable. I'm a bit torn on the buckle brogues. The picture you posted does look rather "maryjane"-like, but the pair that RSV posted a couple weeks back (the actually RRoS issue ones) look more manly. I have a pair of reenactment buckle shoes that I would be tempted to wear, assuming I could shine them up properly...but they have nails in the heel.

Here are three historic pics of styles that I find sufficiently graceful, yet manly.