I've never been to a funeral kilted, but I have one coming up on Friday.
A 23 y/o lass I've known since she was a baby was killed as her car went out of control a short distance from our home.

It promises to be a very sad funeral and I'm not looking forward to it.

I don't really want to stand out from the crowd, but since I don't have trousers to wear I shall wear a kilt. I'm thinking Black Watch may be suitable with a charcoal grey jacket.
No doubt some will be expecting me to play the pipes at the funeral :-(