OK - well you just use positive reinforcement.

When you wear your kilt, be more attentive, romantic, helpful - don't overdo it, or you'll be rumbled in a minute, just do slightly more smiling, listening and stay closer.

When you wear trousers be slightly preocupied, wander off and find something to do or talk about what you are planning, or yourself in general.

Be subtle!!!

Anne the Pleater :ootd: