Dress to be not noticed. It's not about you. It's about the deceased, the family and God.

Father Bill, how do I do this wearing a kilt, I live in a small midwest town, not many kilts. ( I am the only one that has one ) She enjoyed me coming to visit in my kilt, ( she asked if I would ) so are you saying I should dress like everyone else and not wear my kilt in her honor? I am sure I will be the only one kilted, so yes I will be noticed.