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    I feel a bit put out here and feel with all due respect I must make my feelings known, I am not contriving to play at being a Scot. I am, and always will be English. However I have a great love, admiration and respect for the Scottish people, their traditions, history and the beautiful country of Scotland. For that reason I decided to wear a kilt occasionally and also for love and pride of my wife who's maternal family are Scottish.
    My kilt is not a play suit it is a proud statement of heritage.
    [B]Its all a kist o whistles tae me [/B]

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    Quote Originally Posted by terry m View Post
    I feel a bit put out here and feel with all due respect I must make my feelings known, I am not contriving to play at being a Scot. I am, and always will be English. However I have a great love, admiration and respect for the Scottish people, their traditions, history and the beautiful country of Scotland. For that reason I decided to wear a kilt occasionally and also for love and pride of my wife who's maternal family are Scottish.
    My kilt is not a play suit it is a proud statement of heritage.
    I am sure that your motives for wearing the kilt are well meant and even appreciated by some Scots, but I am afraid to say that not all Scots will think that way. Now, I cannot give you definitive statistical percentages, they do not exist as far as I am aware, on who thinks what , but I do have an impression that the Highland Scots take a different slant on this to the Lowland Scots who are after all, generally speaking, very new to kilt wearing.

    You may find a couple of my old threads illuminating. If you click onto Jock Scot at the top left hand corner of this post you will be able to find near the top left side of the page that appears "find latest started threads", in there you will find "Food For Thought" and "Food for thought 2" (F4T2). Neither of these threads give a definitive answer to how all Scotland thinks, however, it does indicate that some Scots( mainly Highlanders if I recall correctly) are quite firm in their thinking over the kilt.
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    Terry,
    I'd say where what YOU (and by extension, your bride, and both your families) want to wear. Don't worry so much about what people on the internet think. This is a specialized forum, with people representing a more selective population, including those who may hold stronger opinions. We all appreciate their inputs, and their insights, and for the enjoyment of the knowledge and history of kilts, they are most welcomed! But they likely won't be at your wedding, and they certainly don't speak for all/most Scots. Most Scots I've encountered either in the US, England, or Scotland, have enjoyed seeing me in a kilt, and of all different tartans I own. I have never received a negative comment regarding my wearing of the kilt. Not one.

    Full disclosure: I'm Chinese. I don't even look white - much less a Scot. My wife carries the Scottish heritage from her father's side - and she is very much her father's daughter.

    I wore a kilt (and got my FIL to wear one, for the first time) at our wedding. I wore it happily, and all my groomsmen wore tuxes, and had matching bow-ties and cummerbunds custom made from the same run of tartan as my kilt, in my wife's family tartan. Every received compliments, everyone was happy. My wife's family, especially. We had a Chinese ceremony in the morning, in which we both wore traditional Chinese garments. In the afternoon, we had our official and western ceremony, where she wore a white wedding gown and I was in my Kilt+PC. It was a coming-together of cultures and backgrounds, and we were all proud to embrace them.

    I would venture to say that yes, as Jock Scot said, SOME people may have heavy opinions, but a lot of people out there either wouldn't know enough to care, just don't care, or see it like how everyone else sees any kind of clothing - they like to see it worn well. Nobody wants to see their heritage butchered by some hooligan wearing it backwards or torn to shreds. But when you wear it, wear it properly, and wear it with pride. When I attend church services at my in-laws, there are many Scots in the congregation, and I've always been praised and appreciated in upholding the tradition and the garments. And as far as I know, there is far more tartan in the congregation now on Scottish holidays, than there ever have been.

    Your motives sounds as true as mine, which is to respectfully celebrate heritage and culture. There will always be nay-sayers. no matter what or where. As long as you're respectful and carry yourself as such.

    Regarding the piper, we had initially planned for the piper to play throughout the earlier part when all the guests are being seated, as well as when the bride was walked down the isle. We had also planned on having a beautiful outdoor garden wedding. But as rain pushed everyone into our rain-site, the piper played when the bride was escorted down the isle by her father, and when we walked out together at the end of the ceremony. He played Highland Cathedral, Black Bear, Scotland the Brave, and one other song.

    BTW, my wife just walked in and agreed with me. Wear what you want. Don't worry about the kilt/tartan/dress-code police. Just be happy!




    Quote Originally Posted by terry m View Post
    I feel a bit put out here and feel with all due respect I must make my feelings known, I am not contriving to play at being a Scot. I am, and always will be English. However I have a great love, admiration and respect for the Scottish people, their traditions, history and the beautiful country of Scotland. For that reason I decided to wear a kilt occasionally and also for love and pride of my wife who's maternal family are Scottish.
    My kilt is not a play suit it is a proud statement of heritage.

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