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11th February 08, 02:41 AM
#1
Sauce for the goose
I was down at the post office wearing my military Argyle and Sutherland kilt ( mmm, toastie) when an older woman alongside me said "Oh, you do look nice. What tartan is that?"
I told her and she replied "I thought so. My husband was in the Argyles". She then went on: "After he died I used to wear his kilt quite a lot"
We chatted some more and then parted.
Now this is the 3rd occasion when a woman has told me that she has worn her late husband's kilt. Kinda odd I thought. The military kilt is very heavy and all men's kilts are made for our shape. While one can appreciate not letting a good kilt linger in the cupboard, I can honestly say I have never heard a woman say "Oh my husband had a lovely 3 piece suit. I often used to wear it when he passed on".
I guess to these women it was just a nice tartan skirt ( sorry guys)
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11th February 08, 02:45 AM
#2
My father-in-law came home one time to find his wife with his kilt spread out measuring it up for a few tartan skirts. Thankfully it was just a joke but it cost him a new outfit for his wife. Women do wear kilts, dancing competitions for instance and my wife had proper kilts as a child, but usually just as a skirt.
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11th February 08, 06:23 AM
#3
It also might just be her way to stay close to her husband. My wife wears some of my old shirts quite a lot.
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11th February 08, 07:41 AM
#4
Whilst young women tend to have a greater difference in waist and hip measurements, age tends to reduce it, so although a bride might not be able to wear her husband's kilt, by the time she is a widow it might fit her quite well.
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11th February 08, 07:43 AM
#5
I well remember after my grandfather died my grandmother would wear his bathrobe. She said it still had his smell on it and it felt like he was hugging her.
Kilt - bathrobe -Makes sense to me.
Ron
Ol' Macdonald himself, a proud son of Skye and Cape Breton Island
Lifetime Member STA. Two time winner of Utilikiltarian of the Month.
"I'll have a kilt please, a nice hand sewn tartan, 16 ounce Strome. Oh, and a sporran on the side, with a strap please."
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11th February 08, 06:42 PM
#6
Poor lady. She had to wait all those years to get her turn.
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11th February 08, 06:51 PM
#7
It's actually a very sweet and touching thought...
Last edited by Bugbear; 11th February 08 at 07:24 PM.
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11th February 08, 06:52 PM
#8
 Originally Posted by Barry
I guess to these women it was just a nice tartan skirt ( sorry guys)
No, I think it was much more than that.
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11th February 08, 09:16 PM
#9
What a great way to stay connected to one they loved.
Glen McGuire
A Life Lived in Fear, Is a Life Half Lived.
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12th February 08, 04:12 AM
#10
Thank you chaps. Some thoughtful replies that have shed light on my experience.
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